No kid dating
One thing parenting doesn’t make easy though, it dating.You read books on how to give birth and how to breastfeed, but learning how to date when you have a child seems much more complicated.But dating with kids means that you may need to find a sitter to watch your child while you take time for romance.
Pre-mommy dating never required a special schedule and child care considerations.The single parent dilemma is felt the hardest by the children, and as a product of such a household I am lucky enough to have this insight in my dating life.Many guys just don’t know how to deal with a child that isn’t theirs and it becomes immediately evident to the child, even when the mom is disillusioned into thinking that the guy is perfect.Kids can be great bonuses to meeting someone new and they can also be nightmares just as easily.When a man gets older he realizes that the chance of meeting a childless woman thins dramatically and the question of “how” may come to his mind in dealing with a child that isn’t his.
I don’t need to see if he gets along with my kids as a “litmus test”. most of these post-divorce relationships end not so “happily ever after” anyway.